The Needy Frog

One Sunday night, I went to a church activity, and there I met a guy. When we were leaving, he put his arm around me and was SUPER cuddly…after like five minutes of knowing him! He wasn’t hideous, so I continued being my normal flirtatious self. Later that evening, the guy just showed up at my house. He asked me if he could take me somewhere. I was enjoying the instant attention so I agreed to go with him. He took me to the park to feed the ducks where we sat and talked for a long time. While we were there, my plans for the summer came up in conversation. I told him I was planning on doing an internship, maybe in Washington DC and he said, “You can’t leave for the summer! What if we get married?!” Woa woa woa buddy… I’ve known you for like an hour! After he brought up the “M” word, I started to panic, so we went to his car where he proceeded to serenade me for what felt like hours!

Monday, night, he came over. Tuesday night, he came over uninvited. Wednesday night, I went to the gym with one of my friends and had left my phone in the car. When I was finished, I had SIX missed calls from him. I called him back and he was mad that I had gone to the gym with someone else. Thursday I night, once again, he stopped by uninvited and fought with me because he just didn’t understand how after four days, I didn’t completely trust him. On Friday, he had texted me asking if he could take me on a secret activity. I told him yes, but that already had plans for the evening. He responded with, “Oh… I didn’t want to take YOU on a date. I’m already going out with someone else tonight!” Wow, um…Okay.

The next Sunday, he showed up at church with a girlfriend. I don’t think he wanted to date ME, he just wanted a girlfriend. At least he apparently found someone who can put up with his neediness! :)