So I met this boy in church. Him and his friend sat next to me and my roommate. The whole time during church he was flirting with my roommate. She had a boyfriend so he was trying to get her to break up with him. He kept saying things like, “I’ll only give you the hymn book if you dump your boyfriend.” At the end of church, he exchanged numbers with me “Just in case the roommate breaks up with her boyfriend.” Well that night, he sent me a text message and we started talking. He invited me over to watch a movie. While watching the movie he kept trying to kiss me. He kept kissing my neck and my cheek. I finally gave in and kissed him back.
A few days later, I was at work and he sent me a text message again. He had asked how I was doing and I said I was stressed. He said, “Well why don’t you come over after work and I’ll give you a back massage.” Well I’m not one to turn down a free massage so of course I went over. As he was massaging, he kept trying to take off my shirt and I got really mad. I told him he needed to respect me if he wanted to hang out with me again. He tried to start kissing me and told me, “Turn this way so that the camera can get you. My roommate is watching us from upstairs!” This made me so mad. To top it off, he kept saying, “So you can only stay til 11 because my next girl is coming over at 11:15.” I remember telling him, “I don’t know you well enough to know if you are joking so those types of things make me very uncomfortable.”
Wow.. I forgot how long this story is. ☺ I had kind of written this boy off thinking that he just wanted to date me to get some action, so I was very surprised when a week later, he texted me saying, “I really want to take you on a real actual date so I can get to know you. Let me take you out tomorrow.” I was SHOCKED! Of course I said I would go so he actually picked me up, we went and got lunch, and he took me on a picnic lunch up the canyon. It was beautiful and such a nice day. He was a complete gentleman and really made an effort. He even asked me to come over again the next day to watch another movie. Things were going good.
The following weekend, he asked me out again. We went to Outback Steakhouse to get food and desserts. He wouldn’t let me order anything I wanted. We ordered the food HE wanted and he shared his dish with me. After a while of just sitting, he started to act a little awkward. I asked him what was wrong and he said, “Oh nothing, I just don’t have anything I want to talk to you about…lets talk about your boobs!” I was shocked! “Are you serious!?” I asked. “Because you can take me home right now.” Instead of trying to fix things, he just said, “Okay, lets go home.” I was SO MAD!
Now I know I am so dumb because I should have just dropped him then, but I still hung out with him one more time. He told me he wanted to talk in person instead of over text so I went over to his house. When there, he gave me his excuse for the rude comment he had said the last time we had hung out. “The food we were eating made me feel so sick that all my brain could think about was my stomach. So when you were trying to have conversation with me, since my brain was busy, my only other option was to think with my penis, and honestly, my penis is not good at having conversation.” I finally learned my lesson. He does not deserve to EVER go out with me again.
